Keeping Your Marriage Exciting Through the Years

Keeping Your Marriage Exciting Through the Years

Your spouse is someone with whom you have a deep connection, and it’s such a strong one that you have promised to spend the rest of your life by their side. While you do care deeply about your partner in life, the fact remains that the honeymoon phase does subside. Over time, you and your spouse may find yourselves stuck in a monotonous routine that can lead to boredom and eventually problems. There are a few signs that you may have reached this point in your relationship including:

  • Instances of PDA have significantly decreased or ceased altogether
  • Decrease in the expression of sentimental feelings
  • Less time spent trying to impress partner

If you feel like your marriage is lacking the luster it once had, the good news is that there is hope. There are three ways you can keep your marriage exciting and alive no matter how long you’ve been together.

1. Change Up the Bedroom Environment

Bedroom

A bedroom that used to feature your passionate expressions of love may very well have been seeing less action than it used to. It’s even estimated that 40 percent of married couples don’t even sleep in the same room, and this can significantly impact your feelings for your partner.

In order to mix things up, consider embarking on a journey of redecorating or even renovating your bedroom, depending on your budget. Just a few things you can consider doing to make the room more exciting include:

  • Paint using colors known to incite feeling of romance such as dark reds or pinks.
  • Buy a mattress topper that improves your mattress at a fraction of the costs of a new one.
  • If you’re on a limited budget, simply rearranging the furniture can add a feeling of newness.

2. Take Time for Self Improvement

Woman

One of the most common pitfalls that occur during marriage starts out seeming sweet. Once a couple get comfortable with one another, they can slack off to a certain extent. For example, over time, the wife may start to use less makeup or concern herself less with getting her hair done. Men may be less prone to worry about shaving and grooming.

While you don’t have to obsess over your looks, make sure you do still take time to focus on your appearance. After all, the way you looked when you first met is the original version of you they were initially attracted to. Allow that person to come out on occasion both to attract your partner and boost your own confidence.

3. Disconnect From the World

Couple Walking

A modern marriage problem that’s becoming more and more prevalent is the lack of communication and time spent together due to distractions. We are surrounded by cell phones, i-pads, laptops, and other devices that offer us endless material to keep us entertained. However, what you may not realize is that your partner may be feeling neglected whether or not either of you realize it.

A great way to ensure this isn’t the case in your marriage is to consider designating one day per week or even just an evening where all electronics are put away and the two of you do something meaningful with one another. Whether that be looking through an old photo album, having a barbecue with other friends and loved ones, or just taking a walk, this provides the opportunity to enjoy each other’s undivided attention on a regular basis.

A Marriage That Lasts

You vowed to stick with your partner until death. In order to ensure you are able to follow through with that promise, it’s important that neither of you grow bored with the marriage. It’s estimated that approximately half of marriages end in divorce. To best ensure yours doesn’t become another statistic, it’s important to actively seek out ways to keep things exciting, and these three tips are a great place to get started.

Be Ready When Things Go Wrong

Be Ready When Things Go Wrong

As with any sport, there is a risk of danger when you’re facing the outdoors prepared for a day or more of hunting. While preparation can go a long way, there is always the possibility of an unexpected circumstance changing the entire course of your outdoor adventure. There’s nothing you can do to eliminate these possibilities, but you can make yourself prepared for survival when things go wrong, and these tips can help you get started.

Come Prepared With Survival Equipment

You don’t have to carry it wherever you go during the trip, but it’s a good idea to come prepared with basic survival gear, especially if your trip will be lasting several days. Long trips can prove especially dangerous if friends and family aren’t expecting you back home anytime soon. The following checklist should be examined and carefully considered as you plan your next hunting trip: Checklist

  • Survival machetes to be used for:
    • Cutting
    • Opening packages
    • Creating weapons
    • Building emergency shelter
    • Cutting cloth and other material to be used as bandages
  • Cordage for:
    • Lasing poles
    • Tent repair
    • Climbing
    • Making splints for broken bones
    • Building emergency shelter
  • A toque to keep you warm during the cooler evening hours
  • A water bottle with filter
  • Pepper spray
  • Meals ready to eat to last at least one week
  • Signaling equipment such as flashlights and whistles in case you are unable to attain a cell phone signal

Standing Your Ground

Camper

When you’re left to fend for yourself in the great outdoors, you run the risk of an encounter with a wild animal such as a bear. When this happens, we naturally would tend to panic and run. However, once the animal senses your fear, they will often pursue you, and the danger increases. Various species react differently to human behaviors. In the event you encounter not-so-friendly wildlife, you should:

  • Assume an aggressive stance such as putting your arms above your head for mountain lions and other large cats as they prefer not to pursue prey that will fight back. Create a presence of intimidation by making loud noises or increasing your height if you have a companion you can put on your shoulders. You should also consider throwing rocks. If you have pepper spray, use it.
  • If hunting in an area known for bears, use whistles and other noisemakers to scare any in the area away. If one approaches you, it’s best to play dead.
  • Wolves and wild dogs see eye contact as a sign of aggression, so if you should encounter them, it’s best not to look them directly in the eye. You should also appear submissive by slumping your body and lowering your head.

Wildlife is a natural part of the outdoors, and it’s for this very reason that you’re out in the first place. However, when you find yourself in a position where your defenses are down, understanding these crucial factors can mean the difference between life and death. You can find more valuable information about safety precautions to take regarding wild animals at Parks Canda’s website.

Better Safe Than Sorry

Safety FirstWhile most hunting trips don’t result in devastating situations, the truth is that, according to the International Hunter Education Association, approximately 100 fatalities occur every year in Canada and the United States during hunting excursions. While these numbers are relatively low, the fact remains that you could find yourself a statistic if you fail to take the proper precautions. By following these useful tips, you can significantly reduce your risk and give yourself the best odds in the event that things go wrong.